Relationship Therapy
Are you tired of endless “what are we?” talks, ghosting anxiety, or the ache of feeling close yet disconnected? You’re not alone. In a world full of blue ticks, dating apps, and blurred lines, navigating love—or even just defining it—can feel overwhelming. If you’re in a relationship, situationship, or anything in between, Vanya Tomar’s Relationship & Situationship Couple Therapy at Moonlight is here to help you find understanding, clarity, and genuine connection.
Why Do Modern Relationships Hurt So Much Sometimes?
Let’s be real:
- Emotional disconnection is common, even when you’re texting 24/7.
- Trust issues creep in when labels are vague, or past betrayals still sting.
- Communication gaps widen as we struggle to express what we really feel, worrying it might scare the other away or start a fight.
Maybe you’re worried your partner just “doesn’t get you.” Or maybe you both want it to work, but every conversation seems to spiral into miscommunication or silence. Whether you’re dealing with situationships, new love, long-term romance, or any undefined territory—your feelings are valid and your connection can be healed.
Therapy That Actually Gets You
With experience guiding hundreds of young adults, Vanya Tomar fuses science-backed techniques with radical empathy. This isn’t old-school couples counseling—it’s designed for Gen Z and young millennials who crave authenticity, clear communication, and deep emotional safety.
Our Signature Approaches
- Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT):
EFT helps you and your partner tune into the emotions beneath the surface. Instead of just arguing about “who texted first,” you’ll build empathy, learn to really listen, and become each other’s safe place. - Conflict Resolution Techniques:
Learn to break the cycle of endless arguments and cold wars. Vanya teaches you how to disagree without destroying each other, so you both feel seen and respected—even in tough moments. - Communication Skills Coaching:
Express how you feel in a way that lands—clear, honest, and kind. No more bottling it up or accidental attacks. You’ll leave with the confidence to say what’s on your heart and actually be heard. - Love Language Mapping:
Not all love feels the same. Are you acts-of-service? Words of affirmation? Or maybe you both connect over quality time, but never realized it. Discover your love languages and start meeting each other’s real emotional needs on purpose.
Who Is This For?
- Dating, talking, or full-on partnered—and want deeper connection.
- Stuck in a situationship, unsure where you stand.
- Have “situational” trust issues or communication breakdowns.
- Have been hurt by cheating, ghosting, or emotional withdrawal.
- Simply want to actually enjoy love again, not just stress about it.
What Can You Expect?
- A judgment-free, safe space (in-person or online)
- Practical, actionable tools you can use on date night and argument night
- Freedom from old patterns that keep dragging you back into the same fights
- A chance to rebuild trust, reignite intimacy, and define what you really want together
Real Results, Real Talk
Vanya’s clients say things like,
“For the first time, I feel like my boyfriend hears me—like, actually gets how I feel.”
“We fought so much less—finally learned how to talk without triggering each other!”
“We were just a situationship…but after therapy, we knew what we wanted and built it together.”
This is your invitation to move beyond “it’s complicated” to “we’re building something real.”
Take the Next Step – Book Your Couple Therapy Session Now
Stop letting small issues become deal-breakers, or letting the fear of heartbreak block your shot at real love. Let Vanya help you break the cycle—heal, connect, and thrive together.
Ready to feel seen? Heard? Loved for who you truly are?
Book your session with Vanya Tomar at Moonlight.
In-person or online. No judgment, just real solutions.
Your healthiest, happiest relationship starts with one brave conversation—and expert support. Slide in now…your future together is worth it.